2010年5月13日星期四

The Winner Stands Alone

by Paul Coelho
As you know throughout the month of June we shall be discussing my new book “The Winner Stands Alone”.

Throughout the week, I will be accessing this page 2-3 times a day in order to answer your questions until June 30th. I want also for you discuss among yourselves – since I’m very curious to see your reactions to the book.

As you know one of the recurrent themes of my books is the importance of paying the price of your dreams. But to what extent can our dreams be manipulated? For the past decades, we lived in a culture that privileged fame, money, power – and most of the people were led to believe that these were the real values that we should pursue.

We all should be a “winner”. Not in the sense of someone who finally wins what is important to his/her life. Not in the sense that happiness is the most valuable gift on Earth – and it can be attained here and now, when your work fulfills your heart. We should be a winner in the sense that the system portraits a successful person: celebrity, influence, photos in glossy magazines, behaving like the masters of the universe.

Yes, you may reach the goal society has fed you – but will you be satisfied? Will you be whole? Will you be in peace? This cycle of possession never ends – because the moment that you think that you have reached your goal another desire creeps in.

Soon after I finished writing “The Winner Stands Alone”, the financial market collapsed. Will this lead us again to the real values? I really don’t know. What I do know is that we cannot continue to allow our dreams to be manipulated like they are as for some of the characters in the book.
So please join me in this monthly workshop into a world that is coming to an end. We will be talking about the characters of the book as well as the main themes that run through it.

I thought of writing a small introduction about each character but prefer to list them below – so that you may comment on them. I’m really eager to see how you feel in regards to each one of them, so leave – under each character – our opinions and questions. As you can see there’s also a section dedicated to the themes that are dealt in the book as well as a section to the writing style.

2010年5月12日星期三

解释:水点,蒸发变做白云。花瓣,飘落下游生根。淡淡交会过,各不留下印。但是经历过,最温柔共震。 - 来自于 陈亦迅的 《落花流水》

解释:水点,蒸发变做白云。花瓣,飘落下游生根。淡淡交会过,各不留下印。但是经历过,最温柔共震。 - 来自于 陈亦迅的 《落花流水》

流水与花,是指代恋人。以自然现象来表达爱情曲折。
能够常相思, 却不能常相守. 感情中存在着这样一个无可奈何的形式.

有些感情即使彼此贪恋也注定无法拥有, 正如落入流水中的落花.
即使流水有意也注定留不住无根的落花, 阻止不了漂流的命运.
或许, 留一份回忆在心底,就是命运对彼此最好的安排吧.

心香一瓣, 直诉天涯!

能够常相思,却不能常相守. 机会偶然,流水遇上落花,相爱,归家。
只是,生活不是童话,故事总会短暂,流水,不过是担当一个护花的角色,但是快乐过,也算无憾。

人事变迁,各有各改变,彼此有自己的新生活。
后来再回想,曾经的交会虽然没有成就一段姻缘,但是,至少快乐过,共同经历过最美好的人和事。

《落花流水》 完整歌词与诠释

流水像清得沒帶半顆沙
前身被擱在上游風化
但那天經過那條提壩
斜陽又返照閃一下
遇上一朵落花
相遇就似擁著最愛歸家
生活別過份地童話化
故事假使短過這五月落霞 沒有需要驚詫

這一段的關鍵詞是相遇 (但那天經過那條提壩........遇上一朵落花 )
然而我想這段相遇只是生命中的泛泛之交而不能長廂廝守,這大概就是”童話化”喻指的東西 (生活別過份地童話化 ).
所以讓男主人公非常的無奈,為什麼把描述主體 (流水) 定位為男呢,因為花通常喻指女性的.

這裡的最後一句也定下了歌曲作為自我開解的基調 (沒有需要驚詫) .

*流水很清楚惜花這個責任
真的身份不過送運
這趟旅行若算開心
亦是無負這一生
水點蒸髮變做白雲
花瓣飄落下游生根*
淡淡交匯過各不留下印

這一段的意思大概是男主人公與女主人公相遇後有過一段淺淺的過去但不能走到最後
我想難於理解的地方在於通篇的比喻, 寫得很虛男主人公用相遇過就是值得慶幸的來安慰自己 (這趟旅行若算開心 亦是無負這一生 )
也把相遇寄託於是上天是命運的安排

流水在山谷下再次分岔
情感漸化做淡然優雅
自覺心境已有如明鏡
為何為天降的稀客
泛過一點浪花
天下並非只是有這朵花
不用為故事下文牽掛
要是 彼此都有些既定路程
學會灑脫 好嗎

我個人認為這一段寫得最精彩!
這是寫男女主人公的"戲分"已經走到了終點 (流水在山谷下再次分岔 )
男本來以為他能放下這一段感情 (自覺心境已有如明鏡).
但是男主人翁還是對女主人公戀戀不捨 (為何為天降的稀客 泛過一點浪花),
這讓他非常痛苦但他還是用"天涯何處無芳草"(天下並非只是有這朵花 )來開解自己.

*流水很清楚惜花這個責任
真的身份不過送運
這趟旅行若算開心
亦是無負這一生
水點蒸髮變做白雲
花瓣飄落下游生根*
命運敲定了要這麼發生
講分開可否不再 用憾事的口吻
習慣無常才會慶幸

講真天涯途上誰是客
散席時怎麼分

*流水很清楚惜花這個責任
真的身份不過送運
這趟旅行若算開心
亦是無負這一生
水點蒸髮變做白雲
花瓣飄落下游生根*
淡淡交匯過各不留下印
但是經歷過最溫柔共震

其實這些比較邊緣的部分才是整首歌價值觀的一個概括和昇華這裡提出了"灑脫"地看感情和人的悲歡離合(命運敲定了要這麼發生 ),
推而廣之就是看世事了; 也提出了"無常"才是生命(習慣無常才會慶幸)
生活的主旋律這麼一個看法;但是得到過就是美好的,
這是我們從最後一句得到的啟示(但是經歷過最溫柔共震)。
這是一種非常樂觀,曠達的人生態度(講分開可否不再用憾事的口吻 )。

全歌從虛地描寫了戀人間的萍水相逢,別後,因為大量留白的技法,讓歌具有了生命力,也產生了廣泛的共鳴,這也許就是這首歌的成功之處吧!

2010年1月6日星期三

相信每个人都会有一些短信,存着心里微微的感动,舍不得删掉。但是总有一天会换手机。删掉吧,心里似乎不愿负担那份怅然。于是想到blog,觉得会是一个这些短信的好去处。

始终天真的认为,过程比结果更有意义。

3.20 10:28AM
It's ok, just be safe. Talk to you soon and try to rest. While in China, try to have fun :)

1.25 1:36AM
u will get better, just take medication n drink lot of water

1.25 1:13AM
r u feeling better? :( love you! :)

1.23 12:28AM
i need your add :) love u :)

1.23 12:25AM
its colder here. pls keep warm. love u n talk 2 u soon

1.19 8:32AM
r u ok? love u

1.17 12:20AM
#hugs, kiss ur forehead# love u too!

1.17 12:07AM
is she taking care of u? call me when u feel better. love you

1.16 11:55PM
i dont mind

1.16 11:36PM
can i be there with u pls?

1.16 10:57PM
how r u doing? wish i can be there :-( pls pls teel me u bundle up b4 going 2 class. get well & talk 2 u soon. love you, badegg

1.6 2:40PM
hey u :), just read your message 10 min ago. i was so, so happy yet so scared. i love you too, twice as much. sweet dreams :)

1.5 11:42PM
can't sleep, might as well get up n see what u r doing? :)

1.5 5:03PM
ok. talk to u soon. sweet dreams.

1.5 4:04PM
r u there yet? :) can u please, please call me :(:( miss u

1.5 12:14PM
yes but how do i deliver? can u let me know when u safely get there? please!!! (:

1.5 12:10AM
Do you have any idea how much i miss you & think of you?